Pack Life
What's the Right Path for You?
Daddy-Bear Brett
10/29/2024


These days, it’s common to hear people refer to any group as a "pack." However, within our community, we recognize the support and unity that come with this chosen family model. A pack means a strong sense of belonging, support, and a loving community. The Hawaiian word ʻOhana means a powerful familial bond forming a root of origin more profound than just a simple blood relation. No matter how distantly related, all were family. Your ʻohana would include distant cousins as well as friends as family. This group thrived on a sense of shared involvement, mutual responsibility, interdependence, and support for one another. The term 'ohana represents love and loyalty. All members embraced the values of kindness, sharing, and caring. Forgiveness was essential.
We see the values of ʻohana within the modern definition of the pack in pup play communities. A pack is more than just a group of guys in masks barking for a beer. It's a chosen family. A group that comes together to find belonging, support, and a sense of community. Not every pack conforms to the same framework. Although packs promote and practice their own ideals, some common themes exist. Packs often offer a sense of belonging, support, and a shared identity. They provide opportunities for fellowship, learning, and personal growth. And trust me, packs usually know how to party!
How Do I Start A Pack?
If you want to start your own pack, consider a few points:
Goals: What do you want your pack to achieve? Are you most interested in social activities, education, community support, or bar events?
Values: What standards are important to you? This is how you begin to develop the culture of your pack. The sky's the limit. There is no concrete definition. Jump on in, pup. The water’s fine!
Commitment: Starting and sustaining a pack requires time and effort. Are you prepared to do the work? Commitment, yes. But that commitment will return amazing rewards.
Once you've considered these points, you’re ready to start recruiting members. This can be done through online forums, social media groups, or local events.
How Do I Join an Existing Pack?
If you're considering joining an existing pack, keep a few things in mind:
Research: Research will help you find a pack that aligns with your goals and priorities.
Connect: Contact the pack leader or a member pup to learn more about the pack. Who knows? This could even be the start of an incredible friendship or family journey.
Attend Events: Go to a few pack events to see if it's a good fit. Introduce yourself and allow the pack to see if you might be a good fit for them too.
Pack Vibe
Pack dynamics can vary significantly. Some packs are structured with strict rules and hierarchies, while others are more relaxed and informal. The best pack for you will be one that most closely matches your priorities and expectations. Be flexible. Take your time. Go with your gut.
Conclusion
Whether you're ready to start your own pack or itching to join an existing one, great times are ahead. Packs offer an amazing opportunity to connect with like-minded pups, build lasting friendships, and embrace a new family. Your 'ohana. AWROOO!!!!